In September, I am confused..

September

September

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九月。

发现很多民族自身的陈规陋习,并非因人所处的环境会有所改变。

中国人为什么不会如西方人那样直率待人。

我是中国人,可是不会中国人自己的那套所谓的社交哲学。

(I’m Chinese, but I don’t know how learn  Chinese social philosophy.) ☹

直言不讳有什么不好吗?

西方人的待人社交原则其实很简单:坦诚,简单,直言,以事论事。

中国人为什么不可以这样呢?

很奇怪,我是中国人,可我偏偏不会中国人的人际社交哲学。

昨天一朋友给我谈及,中国道德经里有句这样的话:“生而不有,为而不恃,长而不宰。(Rear them,but not lay claim to them, Control them, but never lean upon them, Be chief among them, but not manage them.)”.我困惑。。(I am confused..)

 

 

 

 

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